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# Why Christians Keep Getting Drunk on the Wrong Argument
At our church plant's first Christmas party, a deacon brought a case of craft ale, a visiting elder brought a tract about temperance, and someone's grandmother brought her own flask of sherry she'd been hiding in her handbag for thirty years. We managed to offend three different people before the mince pies came out. The alcohol question does that — it exposes exactly how much of our moral certainty is inherited culture dressed up as biblical conviction.
I've been thinking about that party for years, partly because I keep meeting versions of those three people in every congregation I've pastored. The deacon was sure his ale was a gift from God; the elder was sure it was a gateway to hell; and the grandmother was sure neither of them needed to know what was in her handbag. Each had a piece of the truth. None had the whole of it. And the Bible, as it turns out, refuses to side with any of them entirely.
## The Two Tribes and Their Matching Blind Spots
The standard Christian positions on alcohol tend to harden into two camps, and both survive by reading the Bible selectively.
The first camp is what I'd call teetotal moralism. Most at home in certain American evangelical traditions and some corners of British nonconformity, its instinct is to treat any drinking as a moral compromise at best and a sin at worst. It can muster verses — Proverbs 20:1, Habakkuk 2:15, Ephesians 5:18 — but only by ignoring an entire counter-stream of texts in which wine is celebrated as a sign of God's blessing. It tends to assume that the wine of the Bible was non-alcoholic, or near enough not to matter, a claim that does not survive ten minutes with a concordance and a commentary.
The second camp is libertarian indulgence, more common in the trendier reaches of young Reformed culture and certain European Protestant settings. Its instinct is to celebrate Christian liberty so loudly that any pastoral hesitation feels like legalism. It is fond of Luther's beer and Chesterton's cigars, and it tends to forget that the same Bible that blesses wine also describes drunkenness as a desecration of the Spirit's temple. Its blind spot is not so much exegetical as pastoral — it does not see the recovering addict in the second row, or notice when the after-church drinks have quietly become a screening process for who fits in.
Both camps have one thing in common: they want a tidy rule. And the Bible, frustratingly, does not give them one. It holds together three things that our tribal instincts cannot keep in the same hand — wine as gift, drunkenness as horror, and freedom as something to be laid down for the sake of love.
## What the Vine Actually Means
We have to start by saying clearly what teetotal moralism cannot bring itself to say: wine, in Scripture, is good. Not tolerated. Not grudgingly permitted as a concession to weak human appetites. Good.
The Psalmist, in his great hymn to creation, praises the God who brings forth "wine to gladden the heart of man" (Psalm 104:15). The gladdening is the point. Wine is not water with extra steps; it is its own creational gift, doing something water cannot do. The prophets imagine the age to come as a feast of "well-aged wine" (Isaiah 25:6), and the Song of Songs uses it as a metaphor for the goodness of love itself.
Then there is Cana. Of all the things Jesus could have done as his first public miracle, he chose to rescue a wedding from running dry, producing somewhere between 120 and 180 gallons of wine that the master of the feast describes as the best of the night (John 2:10). You can do many things with that text. You cannot turn it into a temperance tract.
And Proverbs 31, the chapter conservative Christians love to quote about the virtuous wife, also tells us to "give strong drink to the one who is perishing, and wine to those in bitter distress" (v.6). Wine, in the wisdom literature, is one of the small mercies given to ease the weight of being human in a fallen world.
To refuse to say this out loud — to mumble around it, or to spiritualise it into something else — is, I think, a failure of gratitude. We are not more holy than the Psalmist. If God made the vine and called it good, we ought to be able to say so.
## The Horror the Bible Refuses to Soften
But the same Bible that blesses the vine refuses to be sentimental about what people do with it.
Noah, the new Adam who steps off the ark into a washed world, plants a vineyard and ends up naked and shamed in his tent (Genesis 9). Lot, rescued from Sodom, ends his story being seduced by his own daughters because he is too drunk to know what is happening (Genesis 19). The first thing the Bible tells us about alcohol, after the flood, is what it does to a righteous man. The second thing is what it does to a family.
Proverbs 23 is one of the most psychologically perceptive passages in the Bible on the subject:
> Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who tarry long over wine... In the end it bites like a serpent and stings like an adder. Your eyes will see strange things, and your heart utter perverse things. (23:29–33)
That is not the language of a minor lifestyle issue. That is the language of a trap that closes around you while you are still telling yourself you are in control.
And then Paul, in Ephesians 5, sets up the contrast that I think is the most important single text on this: "Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit" (v.18). The opposite of drunkenness, in Paul's mind, is not abstinence. It is being filled with the Holy Spirit. Drunkenness is a counterfeit. It promises what only the Spirit can actually give — freedom from the weight of the self, joy, release, communion — and it delivers a hangover and a wreck.
This is why I cannot quite get on board with the cheerful evangelical libertarianism that treats getting wasted as a minor venial sin you laugh about on Monday morning. The Bible doesn't laugh about it. The Bible thinks it is a kind of self-desecration.
## Where the Line Actually Is (and Why It's Harder Than You Think)
So the Bible draws a line, but it draws it at drunkenness, not at alcohol. That is the textual answer, and I think it is correct.
The trouble is that anyone who has ever actually drunk anything knows that "drunkenness" is not a binary state. It is a gradient. There is the first sip, and there is the third glass, and somewhere between them is a point where your judgement begins to slip — and you almost never notice the moment you cross it. Neuroscience tells us what pastoral experience has always told us: by the time you feel drunk, you have been impaired for a while.
This is where proof-texting collapses and wisdom has to take over. The New Testament uses words that hover around the question — methē (drunkenness), oinophlygia (excess of wine), kraipalē (the dissipated state, the morning-after). Paul tells Timothy that overseers must be "not given to much wine" (1 Timothy 3:3), which is interesting precisely because it doesn't say none. It says: not the kind of person whose life orbits around the next drink.
What this means, in practice, is that a Christian asking "is it okay if I have a drink?" is asking the wrong question. The real questions are harder and more personal:
- Do I know my own pattern?
- Am I drinking to enjoy or to escape?
- Could I stop tonight if a friend called in crisis and needed me lucid?
- Have I gone six weeks without and not noticed, or six days without and felt it?
Those are wisdom questions, and they do not yield to a rule.
Augustine, who knew a thing or two about appetite, said somewhere that the problem is not the thing loved but the disordering of the loves. Wine is good. Wine loved more than God, or used as a substitute for him, is idolatry. The line is real, but you cannot draw it on someone else's behalf.
## Paul, the Weak Brother, and the Argument We Misuse Most
The text that gets weaponised more than any other in this debate is Romans 14, and I want to handle it carefully because I think most of us, me included, have got it wrong at some point.
Paul is writing into a community where some Christians eat meat, drink wine, and treat all days alike, and others abstain from meat, avoid wine, and keep particular days as holy. His argument is not that one side is right and the other should conform. His argument is that both should stop judging each other, and that the stronger should be willing to limit their freedom for the sake of the weaker:
> It is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that causes your brother to stumble. (Romans 14:21)
Here is where it goes wrong. This verse is routinely cited to argue that because some Christians don't drink, no Christian should ever drink. But that is not what Paul says. Paul says: if your drinking is causing a particular brother to stumble, to violate his own conscience, or to be drawn back into sin, then for his sake, don't drink in front of him. It is a call to situational, relational discernment, not to a blanket policy.
The "weak brother" in Romans 14 is not someone who finds your behaviour distasteful. He is someone whose own conscience and spiritual health is genuinely endangered. Those are different categories. If they collapse into one, then the most easily offended person in the congregation gets to set the rule for everyone, and Paul's whole point, that the strong should bear with the weak in love, not be ruled by them, disappears.
The pastoral application is real, costly, and binding. If I am having dinner with a recovering alcoholic, I do not order wine. If I am leading a community group where someone has just come out of addiction, I do not stock the fridge. But I do not therefore conclude that no Christian, anywhere, should ever drink. That conclusion is not in the text. It has been smuggled in.
## Class, Culture, and Who Gets to Set the Norm
There is a dimension of this argument that almost never gets named, and I think it has to be.
The teetotal position in global evangelicalism is, very largely, a product of nineteenth-century American revivalism and the temperance movement. It has roots in genuine social concern, the gin epidemic, working-class families destroyed by drink, women and children left destitute, and I do not want to be glib about that history. But it became, over time, a cultural marker that travelled with American missions and American money to other parts of the world.
The result is that in many global churches today, "real Christians don't drink" is preached as if it were a plain biblical teaching, when in fact it is a particular cultural inheritance. Italian Catholics, French Reformed, Kenyan Anglicans, German Lutherans, and most Christians for most of church history would have found the claim baffling. Jesus drank wine. Paul told Timothy to take a little wine for his stomach. The Reformers brewed beer in the parsonage.
There is also a class dimension closer to home. In Britain, where pub culture is woven into working-class community life in ways that middle-class evangelicals often don't fully grasp, a blanket teetotal expectation can function as a quiet barrier to entry. It says: to be one of us, you have to leave behind the rhythms of your neighbourhood, your dad's local, your uncle's pint after work. That may sometimes be a genuine gospel call. But it is often, in practice, a cultural assimilation dressed up as discipleship.
I am not arguing for indifference here. I am arguing for honesty about whose norms we are imposing in the name of Christ.
## The Pastoral Cases That Break Every Simple Rule
Let me put this in front of three people I have actually pastored.
The first is a man in his forties, six years sober, who came to faith in a church recovery group. For him, "one drink" is not a possibility. It is the first step back into a wreckage he barely survived the first time. The right answer for him is total, lifelong abstinence, and he knows it. His sobriety is not legalism. It is wisdom. And the church around him needs to be the kind of church where his choice is honoured without being romanticised or universalised.
The second is a young woman from a Muslim-background family, the first believer in her household. Any drinking on her part would, in her family's eyes, confirm every worst stereotype about what becoming a Christian means, that she has thrown off all moral seriousness and gone over to the West. For the sake of her witness within her family, and for the sake of her own conscience, she does not drink. This is not the same as the recovering addict's case, but it is just as real.
The third is a friend of mine who pastors in a working-class town in the north of England, where the pub is the only living-room most of his neighbours have. He drinks half-pints with men who would never set foot in a church but who will talk to him over a beer about their marriages and their grief. For him, refusing to drink would be a refusal to be present in the actual life of his parish. He drinks slowly, openly, and carefully, and he has buried more parishioners than I have met.
You cannot write a rule that fits all three of these people. You can only write a Lord who knows each of them by name.
## Drinking to the Glory of God, Which Means Sometimes Not Drinking
Paul's summary, in 1 Corinthians 10:31, is the line I keep coming back to: "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
That is not a slogan that solves the question. It is a principle that sharpens it. It refuses both the moralist's tidy "no" and the libertarian's casual "yes" and asks instead: does this glorify God, here, with these people, in this body, at this stage of my life? The answer will sometimes be a glass of wine raised in genuine thanksgiving for the gift of the vine. The answer will sometimes be a glass declined for the sake of a brother who cannot share it. The answer will sometimes be a deliberate fast from something we have grown too fond of. The answer is almost never the same in every circumstance.
The image that holds it all together, for me, is the cup at communion. Christians take wine, actual wine, in most of church history, and still in most of the world, at the centre of our worship. We take it in remembrance of a death, and in anticipation of a feast. We hold the goodness of the gift and the seriousness of the cost in the same hand, in the same moment, at the same table. The cup that gladdens the human heart and the cup of suffering are not two cups. They are one.
That is the only framework I have found that holds the tension without collapsing it. Wine is good. Drunkenness is a desecration. Freedom is real. Love sometimes lays it down. And the Lord who turned water into wine at Cana, and who refused the wine on the cross until his work was finished, knows exactly what he is asking of each of us.
> "Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." (1 Corinthians 10:31)